Rant: women

[haltz]

It's great, Luke. If you can pull it off without re-boarding the crazy train, then it's simply your spank bank becoming reality, which is a good thing.

[Maclowery]

I cannot deny that "We shouldn't do this" ex-sex is definitely the most reliably awesome sex that I know of.

I mean, sure, it misfires sometimes, and that's usually pretty drastic. But, who really cares? The next morning you can just agree that it was a terrible mistake. Then, try again eight to twelve months later.

For the most part, though, it's a perfect storm.

[lukethedrifter]

Uh no.


On second thought, I'm thinking of women I have been or nearly been married to. I'd rather do myself. OTOH there are several honeys that I just dated that I'd encore.

[Richie Allen]

Uh no.


On second thought, I'm thinking of women I have been or nearly been married to. I'd rather do myself. OTOH there are several honeys that I just dated that I'd encore.

Ideally, there's no crying involved. Even after wards. Possibly a tiny bit of regret which is easily outweighed by the boost to your ego. But you're right that there are some paths best left untaken.

[Maclowery]

I'm not talking about day after regrets, damnitall. I'm sayin the business the night of is highly likely to be some steamy tell-your-buddies action.

[lukethedrifter]

I'm not talking about day after regrets, damnitall. I'm sayin the business the night of is highly likely to be some steamy tell-your-buddies action.

Unless you're talking about breaking a vase over her head at climax, loaded pistol in her mouth, etc; I have that with my girlfriend. Not that I need to tell-my-buddies.

[Cronos]

It's easy for most to think that being single is a great, liberating, free thing. But it's not easy for all of us to be single and on the market. Going out and finding attractive strange at the local bar isn't an option for everyone.

[Maclowery]

I hear you, dude. My bed's like the Kalahari desert. Usually barren and devoid of delight. But, by golly, every once in awhile it's raining season, and for a brief period, orchids blossom, feasts provide, and life is sublime.

To me, anyway. Guest satisfaction is generally quite positive at the get-go, but most ditch for better offers once they realize that my contracts are heavily front-loaded.

/intox

[go birds]

Question:

So met this girl thru a mutual friend a few weeks back, ended up going home with her, didnt do anything with her cause she seemed like a classy dame. Made arrangements to hang out later in the afternoon the next day (it was gonna be with a bunch of friends) but i forgot i had prior obligations...no big deal.

So at some time during the week, her roommate adds me on facebook then promptly invites me to this girls bday thing via facebook event; girl later adds me on facebook as well. So i go, we end up going home together again, again nothing happens.

Talk off and on throughout the week and i eventually invite her over to watch a movie on sunday night. i admit it was a bit unorthodox, but whatever, she had mentioned wanting to get together for a movie earlier in the week sooo.... She comes over and everything was fine. She even shot me a cute little text when she got back home thanking me, etc.

So the next day (monday) i shoot her a text after work to see how her day went and we proceed to talk all night.

Then the next two days go by without a word (at this point im kind of feeling her out, so the fact she didnt text or call seemed like a red flag), so yesterday afternoon i shoot her a text and nothing since.

A couple things to consider: 1) she really doesn't strike me as the type to just cold-heartedly ignore me like that and 2) there is a small age gap.

My question is, should cut my losses? or should i send a follow up text later?

Normally i'd prolly just cut my losses, but since there is a mutual friend, i'd rather just have closure so we could just be like "friends is cool" type thing.

[Jocephus]

does she do porn?