A friend of mine has a roommate, let's call him Danny since that's his name. She found him on craig's list and they hit it off and have been roommates for about 8 months I think. So they got along really well, until about a week ago. She had been dating this girl for about 6 weeks and really liked her. The girl she was dating is bi-sexual and said, from the get-go, that she found Danny attractive. Danny found her attractive to. My friend asked him not to pursue anything with her girlfriend out of respect for her. It was understood from the start that they could both date other people, but that Danny couldn't be one of them. You know, because that would be awkward. Long story short, they broke up last week and Danny moved in on this girl like the next day. Called her up, hung out, told her all the sad details that my friend had confided in him, making her look like a fool. She asked him to stop "hanging out" with her. Now she finds out he's sleeping with her so she's evicting him (he's not on the lease).
So he's throwing away a good place to live, and a budding friendship, just to get laid. Pretty sad.
It would seem that the lifestyle isn't the problem, though. The polyamorous hedonism isn't what caused the issue. It was a lack of respect for his friend.
