Another relationship rant
- wart57
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Another relationship rant
How can a person(woman) say she loves someone, yet want to change everything about them to fit what she expects? Why can't we accept people for who they are? I love my wife, I know she has things that irritate me, and I would love it if she changed those things, but I know she can't, and I accept it, why can't she do the same?
- thrill
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Re: Another relationship rant
Because more and more, our culture's version of love is selfish. People love themselves more than they love their spouse so they try to change them into something they want instead of being more concerned with what the other person wants.
Stay strong, Wart man. People can change.
Stay strong, Wart man. People can change.
- wart57
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Re: Another relationship rant
I have noticed when my wife doesn't get her way, she acts a lot like my daughter does when she doesn't get her way, and Stinky is only 17 months old!thrill wrote:Because more and more, our culture's version of love is selfish. People love themselves more than they love their spouse so they try to change them into something they want instead of being more concerned with what the other person wants.
Stay strong, Wart man. People can change.
- thrill
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Re: Another relationship rant
I hope you told her that. That is sure to start a productive, healthy discussion!
- Fat_Bulldog
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Re: Another relationship rant
I'm not going to comment on this one.
- cardinalkarp
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Re: Another relationship rant
Fat_Bulldog wrote:I'm not going to comment on this one.
But you should.
- Maclowery
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Re: Another relationship rant
Relationships suck. But there's always baseball.
- wart57
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Re: Another relationship rant
What the hell? Are you not feeling well today? Skipping a chance to kick me when I am down? I have lost faith in you fat....Fat_Bulldog wrote:I'm not going to comment on this one.
- cardinalkarp
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Re: Another relationship rant
Between you and my dad I think I've figured out not to ever marry an Italian woman (if I wasn't already married)
- G. Keenan
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Re: Another relationship rant
I think wart's wife is Romanian.cardinalkarp wrote:Between you and my dad I think I've figured out not to ever marry an Italian woman (if I wasn't already married)



