Girls with Boyfriends

[InvincibleCakeEater]

I don't even care anymore. I think I've fixed the situation. We hung out and had some drinks, about 12:30 she said she was going to leave and asked me to walk her to her car. We get to her car, she kisses me, I tell her that I like her but she has a boyfriend and it's not right, she says that she's had too much to drink. I went back to the bar and worked on one of her friends that is really cute and have a date for Friday.

EDIT - As I type, girl with a boyfriend is asking me if I'm really going to take other girl out on Friday, because "she's not right for me". I'm sure nobody cares, but I'm going to go ahead and update the conversations until I go to bed because I got nothing else to do and this is just awkward as hell.

What kind of kiss? Lips or cheek?

Either way, you'll be a home wrecker if you pursue it.

Oh, it was lips. And honestly, pretty damn hot. This is going to sound terrible, but this is really the first time that I've felt bad. I mean, before I've always thought that it's the girls fault, but it's just different this time. Her BF is the type of guy that will see me chatting up a girl and just bring over a couple top shelf shots free of charge. That's really cool, even though I think part of it is just so I'll ignore his GF for awhile. Honestly, I think that she's been wanting out for awhile and she just found a guy that offers what she wants in me. It's really just a totally F'd up situation right now, but I'm trying to make it clear that I wouldn't date her if she were to break up with him for me.

Don't do it. Don't be that guy. Don't be the guy that her decent boyfriend has to hate for being a douche.

If she wants out she needs to have the balls to end it without cheating first.

I know. I'm not gonna do anymore, but she is crazy hot so it's frustrating. She called me a little while ago because her friend called and told her we were going out Friday and she was upset because we were supposed to watch a movie that night, so I pretty much just laid down the law. Told her the truth, she's really attractive and I know that we get together great and everything, but I'm not going to be the reason. If she breaks up with her guy it should have nothing to do with me and that I wouldn't date her for a while regardless, out of respect for her boyfriend. Ugh, just ridiculous all over.

[G. Keenan]

You're doing the right thing.

Besides, she sounds insane.

[AdmiralKird]

Assuming of course there is a 'right thing'...

[Simbagal23]

I should make some sort of comment about having her cake and eating it, too. But I won't!

All kidding aside, if you do end up with her, what's to keep her from doing the same thing to you (i.e. going after another guy while dating you)?

[Sutter'sBeard]

I don't even care anymore. I think I've fixed the situation. We hung out and had some drinks, about 12:30 she said she was going to leave and asked me to walk her to her car. We get to her car, she kisses me, I tell her that I like her but she has a boyfriend and it's not right, she says that she's had too much to drink. I went back to the bar and worked on one of her friends that is really cute and have a date for Friday.

EDIT - As I type, girl with a boyfriend is asking me if I'm really going to take other girl out on Friday, because "she's not right for me". I'm sure nobody cares, but I'm going to go ahead and update the conversations until I go to bed because I got nothing else to do and this is just awkward as hell.

What kind of kiss? Lips or cheek?

Either way, you'll be a home wrecker if you pursue it.

Oh, it was lips. And honestly, pretty damn hot. This is going to sound terrible, but this is really the first time that I've felt bad. I mean, before I've always thought that it's the girls fault, but it's just different this time. Her BF is the type of guy that will see me chatting up a girl and just bring over a couple top shelf shots free of charge. That's really cool, even though I think part of it is just so I'll ignore his GF for awhile. Honestly, I think that she's been wanting out for awhile and she just found a guy that offers what she wants in me. It's really just a totally F'd up situation right now, but I'm trying to make it clear that I wouldn't date her if she were to break up with him for me.

Don't do it. Don't be that guy. Don't be the guy that her decent boyfriend has to hate for being a douche.

If she wants out she needs to have the balls to end it without cheating first.

I know. I'm not gonna do anymore, but she is crazy hot so it's frustrating. She called me a little while ago because her friend called and told her we were going out Friday and she was upset because we were supposed to watch a movie that night, so I pretty much just laid down the law. Told her the truth, she's really attractive and I know that we get together great and everything, but I'm not going to be the reason. If she breaks up with her guy it should have nothing to do with me and that I wouldn't date her for a while regardless, out of respect for her boyfriend. Ugh, just ridiculous all over.

The fact that she is "crazy hot" changes everything here. Go through with it. You can always ease your conscience by remembering how hot that chick was that you bagged.

[Popeye_Card]

The problem with crazy hot girls is that they are indeed crazy.

Steer clear. I've had a mantra for a long time--"Nothing good ever comes from a bad situation." This is a bad situation.

[Swatcat27]

Girls with Boyfriends won't quit leaving facebook messages.

[jeffbgoofy]

I should make some sort of comment about having her cake and eating it, too. But I won't!

All kidding aside, if you do end up with her, what's to keep her from doing the same thing to you (i.e. going after another guy while dating you)?

+ my thoughts exactly...

I wish you luck ICE, women and their power trips are amazing situations and glad I don't have to deal with most of them anymore. Do what your heart tells you, you were smart to lay down the law with her.

[JL21]

If it's torturing you this much, you now have a very simple way of clarifying the situation...



Tell the boyfriend that the girl kissed you. Tell him it's making you uncomfortable. And tell him that you feel like he has a right to know. You'll be guilt-free because you're not hiding anything. She won't bother you with this chicanery again. And you maintain your friendship with the dude.

[cardinalkarp]

Tell the boyfriend that the girl kissed you. Tell him it's making you uncomfortable. And tell him that you feel like he has a right to know. You'll be guilt-free because you're not hiding anything. She won't bother you with this chicanery again. And you maintain your friendship with the dude

After doing that forget going to one of your favorite local bars and don't bother trying to date her other hot friends.