Girls with Boyfriends

[JL21]

Tell the boyfriend that the girl kissed you. Tell him it's making you uncomfortable. And tell him that you feel like he has a right to know. You'll be guilt-free because you're not hiding anything. She won't bother you with this chicanery again. And you maintain your friendship with the dude

After doing that forget going to one of your favorite local bars and don't bother trying to date her other hot friends.

Ok, her friends.... obviously. But why the bar? If anything, I'd think that the dude who works there would pretty much treat you like a king from that point forward.

[Popeye_Card]

Tell the boyfriend that the girl kissed you. Tell him it's making you uncomfortable. And tell him that you feel like he has a right to know. You'll be guilt-free because you're not hiding anything. She won't bother you with this chicanery again. And you maintain your friendship with the dude

After doing that forget going to one of your favorite local bars and don't bother trying to date her other hot friends.

Ok, her friends.... obviously. But why the bar? If anything, I'd think that the dude who works there would pretty much treat you like a king from that point forward.

Dude, no way. If I was dating a hot chick for 3 years, and a random friend of mine comes and tells me that she kissed him, I'd be pissed at every person involved. I'd know it's not the guy's fault, but I'm not going to treat him like any king. I'd probably not talk to the guy much, if for no other reason than it brings up bad memories.

[JL21]

Dude, no way. If I was dating a hot chick for 3 years, and a random friend of mine comes and tells me that she kissed him, I'd be pissed at every person involved. I'd know it's not the guy's fault, but I'm not going to treat him like any king. I'd probably not talk to the guy much, if for no other reason than it brings up bad memories.

I can see it going both ways. I understand your point. But I'd be pretty loyal to a guy like that.

The only problem is that it might backfire- he might not believe that it was the girl that did the initiating.

[cardinalkarp]

Tell the boyfriend that the girl kissed you. Tell him it's making you uncomfortable. And tell him that you feel like he has a right to know. You'll be guilt-free because you're not hiding anything. She won't bother you with this chicanery again. And you maintain your friendship with the dude

After doing that forget going to one of your favorite local bars and don't bother trying to date her other hot friends.

Ok, her friends.... obviously. But why the bar? If anything, I'd think that the dude who works there would pretty much treat you like a king from that point forward.

Dude, no way. If I was dating a hot chick for 3 years, and a random friend of mine comes and tells me that she kissed him, I'd be pissed at every person involved. I'd know it's not the guy's fault, but I'm not going to treat him like any king. I'd probably not talk to the guy much, if for no other reason than it brings up bad memories.

It takes two people to kiss, and it doesn't sound like ICE resisted much.

Like Popeye said, I'd be pissed at everyone involved and probably wouldn't be friends w/ either.

[Popeye_Card]

The only problem is that it might backfire- he might not believe that it was the girl that did the initiating.

In my experience, you always blame the guy more than the girl, even if he claims she initiated it. I think that's male human behavior.

[clevername]

The only problem is that it might backfire- he might not believe that it was the girl that did the initiating.

In my experience, you always blame the guy more than the girl, even if he claims she initiated it. I think that's male human behavior.

girls are angels who are taken advantage of/seduced. Guys are evil predators out to steal your wife/girlfriend.

There's little room for reason in these situations.

[JL21]

Yeah, I guess you should ignore my advice.

[phins]

If it's torturing you this much, you now have a very simple way of clarifying the situation...



Tell the boyfriend that the girl kissed you. Tell him it's making you uncomfortable. And tell him that you feel like he has a right to know. You'll be guilt-free because you're not hiding anything. She won't bother you with this chicanery again. And you maintain your friendship with the dude.

You're my fave on here JL, but this is the worst idea ever.

She will hate you, and rest assured this dude will somehow end up hating you as well. He'll always see you as the guy that broke up his girlfriend and him, regardless of the truth.

Don't do this at all...

[JL21]

Meh... if she's torturing him, especially if it's on purpose, why give a shiznit if she's gonna hate you afterwards?

[Simbagal23]

Since ICE has made a date with her friend, she has probably told her boyfriend that ICE hit on her......be careful at the bar, you may get some extra special liquids in your drinks?!