I'm not trying to make her look like a monster. I've been there myself. Heck, I have a few girl friends right now that would like to date me, but I'm not interested in them that same way. It doesn't really matter what they do--I'm not really interested in them.tothebeach08 wrote:Pizza or burger, come on. Haven't any of your people ever changed your mind about what you want??? So she liked his friend first, that doesn't mean she won't like him. And if he likes her, why would he want to play some silly little games and go after one of her friends. If the only reason she wanted him, at that point, was to keep him from being with her friend, would he really want her? I mean, she's just a young girl not some kind of monster who is out to screw with his mind.
Once you make a decision about how to handle this, and do it, one way or the other you are going to feel so much relief from having this off your mind.
But I'm speaking from experience that if a girl is on the verge of liking you, but not quite sure--you can make her jealous, and she'll suddenly be sure. That doesn't make her a bad person either. It just ups your status from a "backup plan" for her to a real option.
