I am the biggest dork you will ever (not) meet

[Popeye_Card]

That is another predatory nickname for women....not a predatory nickname for men...

Well those guys are just called creepy.

Yeah. I assume that terms like "slut" and "cougar" are bothersome because they represent a social judgment about your sexuality suggesting it may not be the right (traditional) kind. Although "creepy" is broader, I'd say it covers much of the same territory.

I thought the term "men" by itself insinuated that they want to have sex with younger women.

[TimeForGuinness]

I made up the cave exploring at midnight thing because it was the opposite of meeting him "in a well lit, public place during the day". I was attempting humor.

fail

obviously.

not that it's a bad thing...just that we know all these wild stories about your dates...and really...exploring caves isn't that far out of the realm of a possibility

[Arthur Dent]

That is another predatory nickname for women....not a predatory nickname for men...

Well those guys are just called creepy.

Yeah. I assume that terms like "slut" and "cougar" are bothersome because they represent a social judgment about your sexuality suggesting it may not be the right (traditional) kind. Although "creepy" is broader, I'd say it covers much of the same territory.

I thought the term "men" by itself insinuated that they want to have sex with younger women.

Creepy guys would be the ones who actually do, I guess.

[JCShutout]

I made up the cave exploring at midnight thing because it was the opposite of meeting him "in a well lit, public place during the day". I was attempting humor.

fail

obviously.

not that it's a bad thing...just that we know all these wild stories about your dates...and really...exploring caves isn't that far out of the realm of a possibility

TIT

[Popeye_Card]

That is another predatory nickname for women....not a predatory nickname for men...

Well those guys are just called creepy.

Yeah. I assume that terms like "slut" and "cougar" are bothersome because they represent a social judgment about your sexuality suggesting it may not be the right (traditional) kind. Although "creepy" is broader, I'd say it covers much of the same territory.

I thought the term "men" by itself insinuated that they want to have sex with younger women.

Creepy guys would be the ones who actually do, I guess.

I guess it depends on what we're talking about here.

"Cougars" are 40-50-somethings that go out on the prowl for 20-something guys. Is a 40-50-something guy hooking up with a 20-something woman that creepy? Or are we just calling them creepy because they're trying to elbow into our market?

[Arthur Dent]

"Cougars" are 40-50-somethings that go out on the prowl for 20-something guys. Is a 40-50-something guy hooking up with a 20-something woman that creepy?

Isn't that the general consensus?

[Cronos]

"Cougars" are 40-50-somethings that go out on the prowl for 20-something guys. Is a 40-50-something guy hooking up with a 20-something woman that creepy?

Isn't that the general consensus?

I would consider anyone hooking up with someone who fits in the age range of their real or potential offspring creepy, yes.

[TimeForGuinness]

Age is just a number...sometimes people just find each other.

[docellis]

I think anyone (male or female) that exclusively sets out to hook up with someone inordinately younger than themselves, I think that is kind of fetishistic (if that is a word).

[Popeye_Card]

"Cougars" are 40-50-somethings that go out on the prowl for 20-something guys. Is a 40-50-something guy hooking up with a 20-something woman that creepy?

Isn't that the general consensus?

I would consider anyone hooking up with someone who fits in the age range of their real or potential offspring creepy, yes.

Alright, so are the cougars creepy? Or are just the men creepy?