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Socnorb11 wrote:
That's not really the point. The point is that studies have shown that the optimal household structure (both a father and a mother) comes through heterosexual marriage.

Socnorb11 wrote:Again society cannot exist without some sort of man/woman connection. Marriage simply encourages that, I think.

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Jocephus wrote:

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cardsfansince82 wrote:

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cardsfansince82 wrote:Soc, do you think people choose to be gay?

I actually don't.

Then why would you ever support anything that denies them the same rights as you? That's no different than supporting different rules for black people, or autistic people, or people who were born more athletic than you, etc etc.

"Equal rights" aren't an issue here. I am straight, and I don't have a right to marry someone of the same sex, either. Dan Savage is gay, and he has the same right to marry someone of the opposite sex that I have (in fact, he did just that).

thats a terrible argument.

What do you mean? They don't have the same rights that I have?

Jocephus wrote:

Socnorb11 wrote:

Jocephus wrote:

Socnorb11 wrote:

cardsfansince82 wrote:

Socnorb11 wrote:

cardsfansince82 wrote:Soc, do you think people choose to be gay?

I actually don't.

Then why would you ever support anything that denies them the same rights as you? That's no different than supporting different rules for black people, or autistic people, or people who were born more athletic than you, etc etc.

"Equal rights" aren't an issue here. I am straight, and I don't have a right to marry someone of the same sex, either. Dan Savage is gay, and he has the same right to marry someone of the opposite sex that I have (in fact, he did just that).

thats a terrible argument.

What do you mean? They don't have the same rights that I have?

maybe i'm misunderstanding you. i keep re-reading it.

the way i read it was that you claim this isn't about equal rights. since you are straight, there isn't a law written that says you can marry a man. (but thats redundant since a self identified heterosexual man would have no reason to marry a man.) but dan savage, because he is biologically attracted to men, has a right that you don't?

Socnorb11 wrote:

cardsfansince82 wrote:

Socnorb11 wrote:

cardsfansince82 wrote:Soc, do you think people choose to be gay?

I actually don't.

Then why would you ever support anything that denies them the same rights as you? That's no different than supporting different rules for black people, or autistic people, or people who were born more athletic than you, etc etc.

"Equal rights" aren't an issue here. I am straight, and I don't have a right to marry someone of the same sex, either. Dan Savage is gay, and he has the same right to marry someone of the opposite sex that I have (in fact, he did just that).

AWvsCBsteeeerike3 wrote:

Socnorb11 wrote:
That's not really the point. The point is that studies have shown that the optimal household structure (both a father and a mother) comes through heterosexual marriage.

Do you have a link, I thought optimal household had a lot more to do with socio-economics than with the mother/father aspect, but I'm open to being wrong. If you're just saying mother/father households produce more healthy, intelligent children, then that's likely due to socio-economic factors than the mother/father aspect from what I've seen.

Socnorb11 wrote:http://www.frc.org/issuebrief/new-study ... s-research

Jocephus wrote:

Limitations of the Study

While the Regnerus study is a vast improvement over virtually all the prior research in the field, it still leaves much to study and learn about homosexual parents and their effect on children. Author Mark Regnerus emphasizes the traditional caveat in social science, warning against leaping to conclusions regarding "causality." In other words, just because there are statistical correlations between having a homosexual parent and experiencing negative outcomes does not automatically prove that having a homosexual parent is what caused the negative outcomes--other factors could be at work.

This is true in a strict scientific sense--but because Regnerus carefully controlled for so many other factors in the social environment, the study gives a clear indication that it is this parental characteristic which best defines the household environment that produces these troubling outcomes. The large number of significant negative outcomes in this study gives legitimate reason for concern about the consequences of "homosexual parenting."