Girls

[thrill]

For some inexplicable reason I feel compelled to ask the difference between "hanging out" and being friends and a fling.

Isn't this Kyle's dilemma?

[TimeForGuinness]

Don't fall for someone who isn't willing to catch you.

A piece of advice...keep trying to meet other women while you have your fling. That way, when she walks, it won't hurt as much. If it's a fling, treat it like one...you shouldn't put more into this than she is willing to...it isn't fair to you.

TFG

[Cronos]

Don't fall for someone who isn't willing to catch you.

No kidding when I say this, TFG, that might be the most profound, beautiful thing you've ever said. That's awesome.

[greenback44]

Don't fall for someone who isn't willing to catch you.

No kidding when I say this, TFG, that might be the most profound, beautiful thing you've ever said. That's awesome.

It's great and everything, but it's a mistake to use it as a reason for never falling. If you want a detailed explanation, I could bore the [expletive] out of everyone.

[Cronos]

Don't fall for someone who isn't willing to catch you.

No kidding when I say this, TFG, that might be the most profound, beautiful thing you've ever said. That's awesome.

It's great and everything, but it's a mistake to use it as a reason for never falling. If you want a detailed explanation, I could bore the [expletive] out of everyone.

Go for it. This thread needs more profundity.

[Bo Hart]

Bore the [expletive] out of me I am drunk but I am not hung up on one girl in fact, remember that other girl, I was talking to her tonight.

I think this fling thing may work out to be the best. I mean, as long as I don't prevent myself from talknig to other girls it shouldn't really be a big deal, right? I guess the point is that... well, as long as I keep takling to other girls, continiuing to talk to Haley won't be as bad as everyone thinks.

Objectively, am I acting like a little [expletive] or not? Sometimes I really think I show my age here. Then again, I'm 22 and you'd think I'd be well-beynnd [expletive] like this but hell I guess I'm not.

[greenback44]

Don't fall for someone who isn't willing to catch you.

No kidding when I say this, TFG, that might be the most profound, beautiful thing you've ever said. That's awesome.

It's great and everything, but it's a mistake to use it as a reason for never falling. If you want a detailed explanation, I could bore the [expletive] out of everyone.

Go for it. This thread needs more profundity.

Me talking about my life personal life evokes images of the lady who hung herself on "Airplane".

Probably Red's line in "Shawshank Redemption" about institutionalization, the danger of becoming dependent on prison walls, suffices.

[TimeForGuinness]

I think this fling thing may work out to be the best. I mean, as long as I don't prevent myself from talknig to other girls it shouldn't really be a big deal, right? I guess the point is that... well, as long as I keep takling to other girls, continiuing to talk to Haley won't be as bad as everyone thinks.

you got it kid...play, play on

think of a fling as a practice game...work out all your kinks...and have fun!

if things get serious...cool...but let her come to you, you've already let her know where you stand.

[Hungary Jack]

You think you're done, but then they pull you back in, but then you still think you have a chance, but in reality you're just being delusional... but then they invite you to dinner with their parents which is incredibly suggestive, but you just pass it off and think you're just her friend, but you never really know for sure and are too scared to actually ask her what her true feelings are, so instead you just rant on Gateway Redbirds in the Rants forum via run-on sentences, and then you think, "hey this is the coolest girl you've met," just be audacious and tell her how you feel and ask her if it is mutual," but you are too much of a coward, and so you just continue to sit in between a rock and a hard place and hope you can figure things out before she leaves in three weeks.

That's why I only get involved with women.

[TimeForGuinness]

Don't fall for someone who isn't willing to catch you.

No kidding when I say this, TFG, that might be the most profound, beautiful thing you've ever said. That's awesome.

It's great and everything, but it's a mistake to use it as a reason for never falling. If you want a detailed explanation, I could bore the [expletive] out of everyone.

Go for it. This thread needs more profundity.

Me talking about my life personal life evokes images of the lady who hung herself on "Airplane".

Probably Red's line in "Shawshank Redemption" about institutionalization, the danger of becoming dependent on prison walls, suffices.

I hear what you are saying...I was putting in a perspective of him continuing to fall for her even though she may not want a relationship. That gets messy and psychotic...and he didn't want to lose her as a friend.

Obviously there is an attraction, but he needs to take it slow...have fun...and not take anything too seriously because of where she's at.

Just looking out for my fellow GRBers