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cardsfansince82 wrote:I'm still waiting for Third Man to tell us what that porn star smelled like.
Before or after he dumped her body?
I'm sure he still has some mason jars full of both. He's really going to regret it when detectives tie him to the crime through cellphone dick pics.

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Hey, that's not until April 9th. READ THE FLYER.

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When someone recognizes your gf who did porn that's awkward. Really awkward. There are millions and millions of naked girls on the internet. How many movies do you have to do to have fans, who recognize you at a concert?

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IMADreamer wrote:When someone recognizes your gf who did porn that's awkward. Really awkward. There are millions and millions of naked girls on the internet. How many movies do you have to do to have fans, who recognize you at a concert?
What did you do in that situation? There's no wrong or right way responding to a guy who recognizes her, IMO.

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Lesson wrote:
IMADreamer wrote:When someone recognizes your gf who did porn that's awkward. Really awkward. There are millions and millions of naked girls on the internet. How many movies do you have to do to have fans, who recognize you at a concert?
What did you do in that situation? There's no wrong or right way responding to a guy who recognizes her, IMO.
I feel like I handled it pretty well. At first I laid back. She was very friendly to the guy, she's clearly done this before. He was kind of chatty and so I kindly interrupted and said that we needed to go to our seats. He was cool about it. It was awkward though. She apologized to me which I told her was not necessary. If it happened once it will happen again. Although she said it's pretty rare.

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IMADreamer wrote:
Lesson wrote:
IMADreamer wrote:When someone recognizes your gf who did porn that's awkward. Really awkward. There are millions and millions of naked girls on the internet. How many movies do you have to do to have fans, who recognize you at a concert?
What did you do in that situation? There's no wrong or right way responding to a guy who recognizes her, IMO.
I feel like I handled it pretty well. At first I laid back. She was very friendly to the guy, she's clearly done this before. He was kind of chatty and so I kindly interrupted and said that we needed to go to our seats. He was cool about it. It was awkward though. She apologized to me which I told her was not necessary. If it happened once it will happen again. Although she said it's pretty rare.
I would be a little worried if she seems to enjoy being recognized. Wouldn't it be way easier for her to just deny it in a situation like that?

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cardsfansince82 wrote:
IMADreamer wrote:
Lesson wrote:
IMADreamer wrote:When someone recognizes your gf who did porn that's awkward. Really awkward. There are millions and millions of naked girls on the internet. How many movies do you have to do to have fans, who recognize you at a concert?
What did you do in that situation? There's no wrong or right way responding to a guy who recognizes her, IMO.
I feel like I handled it pretty well. At first I laid back. She was very friendly to the guy, she's clearly done this before. He was kind of chatty and so I kindly interrupted and said that we needed to go to our seats. He was cool about it. It was awkward though. She apologized to me which I told her was not necessary. If it happened once it will happen again. Although she said it's pretty rare.
I would be a little worried if she seems to enjoy being recognized. Wouldn't it be way easier for her to just deny it in a situation like that?
I don't know if she enjoyed it. She just handled it well. She was polite about it. Maybe she should have denied it though. I'm not sure really because this is all new territory for me. My last gf was a self proclaimed nerd and preferred a good book to going out. lol

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IMADreamer wrote: I don't know if she enjoyed it. She just handled it well. She was polite about it. Maybe she should have denied it though. I'm not sure really because this is all new territory for me. My last gf was a self proclaimed nerd and preferred a good book to going out. lol
I'm just going off of your previous post that kind of gives the impression she liked the attention. I don't see what she has to gain from discussing that sort of thing with some random dude at a concert other than an ego stroke. I think it puts you in an awkward situation unnecessarily.

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Well, what's the right way to handle it? I guess you could deny it or try to get away as soon as possible, and perhaps that would work for some people, but I can imagine that could also feel like you have this big shame you have to hide. Just being open about it seems like as good an approach as any.

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Arthur Dent wrote:Well, what's the right way to handle it? I guess you could deny it or try to get away as soon as possible, and perhaps that would work for some people, but I can imagine that could also feel like you have this big shame you have to hide. Just being open about it seems like as good an approach as any.
I'm not saying she should be ashamed or should deny it always. She obviously isn't opposed to talking to friends about it. Just in this specific situation I don't see any value in her discussing her previous career with a total stranger. "Hey, didn't you used to have sex on camera? I liked touching myself while watching you." There's no positive outcome for dreamer in that scenario and I think it's kind of rude for her to put him in that position.

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