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If I hold the door open for you
Posted: March 6 08, 1:31 pm
by Faceman
Just say thank you. Or just thanks. Maybe just a smile. Something. Don't just walk through, avoid eye contact and act like I was supposed to do that for you.
Thanks
Re: If I hold the door open for you
Posted: March 6 08, 1:42 pm
by omaha_red
this is a great rant..
not one person in my general area has ever said thanks when i open the door for them..
i always say "i'm never holding the door open for anyone ever again".. but i always do
Re: If I hold the door open for you
Posted: March 6 08, 1:44 pm
by heyzeus
I'd like to offer a rant corollary:
When you're walking not far behind someone, and they know you're behind them, and they go through a door that is closing and let it slam on you.
Re: If I hold the door open for you
Posted: March 6 08, 1:47 pm
by cardinalkarp
heyzeus wrote:I'd like to offer a rant corollary:
When you're walking not far behind someone, and they know you're behind them, and they go through a door that is closing and let it slam on you.
Another situation I hate is when I'm just far enough behind someone and they want to hold the door for me, causing me to have to run/jog up to the door since I don't want them to be holding the door forever.
Re: If I hold the door open for you
Posted: March 6 08, 1:50 pm
by JL21
cardinalkarp wrote:heyzeus wrote:I'd like to offer a rant corollary:
When you're walking not far behind someone, and they know you're behind them, and they go through a door that is closing and let it slam on you.
Another situation I hate is when I'm just far enough behind someone and they want to hold the door for me, causing me to have to run/jog up to the door since I don't want them to be holding the door forever.
Yeah, but you can't bust someone's chops for going out of their way to be courteous to you.
Re: If I hold the door open for you
Posted: March 6 08, 1:55 pm
by cardinalkarp
RC21* wrote:cardinalkarp wrote:heyzeus wrote:I'd like to offer a rant corollary:
When you're walking not far behind someone, and they know you're behind them, and they go through a door that is closing and let it slam on you.
Another situation I hate is when I'm just far enough behind someone and they want to hold the door for me, causing me to have to run/jog up to the door since I don't want them to be holding the door forever.
Yeah, but you can't bust someone's chops for going out of their way to be courteous to you.
I don't, I'll just jog up there and tell them thanks. Even though I don't mean it.

Re: If I hold the door open for you
Posted: March 6 08, 1:55 pm
by Molly
Faceman wrote:Just say thank you. Or just thanks. Maybe just a smile. Something. Don't just walk through, avoid eye contact and act like I was supposed to do that for you.
Thanks
I have had this happen to me on several occasions. My response is always "You're welcome." Then they sheepishly apologize
As a side rant, if I allow you to merge into traffic in front of me, a nice wave of the hand as a thank you is also appreciated.
Re: If I hold the door open for you
Posted: March 6 08, 2:10 pm
by Fat_Bulldog
omaha_red wrote:this is a great rant..
not one person in my general area has ever said thanks when i open the door for them..
i always say "i'm never holding the door open for anyone ever again".. but i always do
If you held the door open for me, I'd kick you right in the anus and call you a jackass.
Re: If I hold the door open for you
Posted: March 6 08, 2:17 pm
by Magneto2.0
I always acknowledge someone for holding/opening the door for me, even though 90% of the time, they don't say "You're welcome" in response. Which would be courteous, to just recognize that I recognized you. But whatever....
Re: If I hold the door open for you
Posted: March 6 08, 2:35 pm
by GatewaySnayke
Faceman wrote:Just say thank you. Or just thanks. Maybe just a smile. Something. Don't just walk through, avoid eye contact and act like I was supposed to do that for you.
Thanks
What the hell...there's hope for you and I to be bestest friends forever after all!
This rant is Snayke Approved.