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and breaking up.

what say you?

me? rant.

If you're the breakee, the being suddenly single part sucks.

If you're the breaker, the breakup process sucks, but the being single part is great.

Though if you're getting out of a LTR, it takes a little bit to get used to the single lifestyle again. i.e., not having an automatic date for things, playing 3rd wheel, etc. But once you get used to it again, it's not so bad.

It was a rave for me last time, but the breakup was mutual.

I just want to shoot myself in the head.

I've been dating this girl for almost a year. I've lived with her the past 6 mos and I absolutely love her. And, we go out Saturday night with my friends. For some reason she is uncomfortable around them and loses all confidence. (We've talked about this and how she needs to just be herself instead of being so needy.) So, the problems that result from that are ugly. Like acting aloof at dinner/not even in the conversation but rather texting on her phone and making phone calls.....then we go out and she hits on/flirts with every guy she can right in front of me to piss me off. So....I pull her aside, tell her I love her and to please stop. And, the next bar we go to she starts rubbing the bouncers back......so i say something and he says something to me so I hit him inthe face and get gang raped by all his bouncer buddies.

As I'm getting wrestled to the ground, someone kicks me in the hip. I know, right? who does that? but i have a massive bruise on it and luckily that's the only place. Then the cops show up and I get arrested...but talked my way out of getting a public intox and they let me go.....end of the story. We're done.

I'm hungover and want to die right now. She showed up right as I was leaving for work and all I want to do is hug her and tell her I love her but that's not going to help anything. This is just not going to work and it sucks to say that.

Yikes. Stay strong.

wow... sorry bro

i will never understand women

Your now ex was definitely trying to piss you off but popping the bouncer in the face may not have been the best way to resolve the situation.

If she's willing to do that kind of crap to piss you off she's probably not worth your time anyway.

cardinalkarp wrote:Your now ex was definitely trying to piss you off but popping the bouncer in the face may not have been the best way to resolve the situation.

If she's willing to do that kind of crap to piss you off she's probably not worth your time anyway.

agreed....but ouch dude, that is gonna hurt in more ways then one...

Oh man, don't fight bouncers. That never ends well. I might have done the exact same thing though.

I assume this will suck for a while, but try to enjoy the little things like cleaning a bass wherever the [expletive] you want in the meantime.