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I went to a niece's graduation yesterday. Great kid. Fun with family.

I'm just sitting there minding my own business when the topic of another niece comes up. She is getting divorced. She hasn't even been married for two years. She's a wonderful beautiful young lady also. Turns out her husband is a sex addict and was sleeping around with ten or more women and it just came out. She's doing ok I guess, but man. He took her huge heart and took a crap on it. I know when I played for their wedding he never talked to me or anything. I just figured he's shy. Hell, I am too so no big deal. But obviously he was talking to someone.

What a [expletive] time for my chipper blades to be in the shop.

You shouldn't be mad at someone for having a disease...

That is hard to make any sense of Leroy. Even if this guy is a "sex addict*" - if he loved the gal he would have had the decency to not drag her through a marriage.

*"sex addict" -I don't doubt a weak addictive personality can be addicted to this. Still no excuse for subjecting someone to deceitful sort of treatment.

Guy did an awful thing and deserves a lot of scorn but I just wanna preemptively say that I hope nobody doubts than sex addiction is a real thing. I know it sounds ridiculous. It sounded ridiculous to me too until I read stories of guys who masturbated so much their penises bled on other websites.

The Third Man wrote:Guy did an awful thing and deserves a lot of scorn but I just wanna preemptively say that I hope nobody doubts than sex addiction is a real thing. I know it sounds ridiculous. It sounded ridiculous to me too until I read stories of guys who masturbated so much their penises bled on other websites.

I don't believe in sex addiction.

The sex addiction thing is b-s. Every healthy human being is a sex addict. That doesn't mean you go whoring it up when you are married.

I think it's possible to develop obsessions and compulsions, but some people are serial [expletive], and frankly, your niece's husband sounds like one of many who have walked the earth.

I get the whole disease thing, I do. But what I don't get is for the little numb nuts need to get married. Sleep around for all I care, just don't ruin someone else's life because you can't control yourself.

Leroy wrote:I get the whole disease thing, I do. But what I don't get is for the little numb nuts need to get married. Sleep around for all I care, just don't ruin someone else's life because you can't control yourself.

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